church shopping 101

A Comprehensive Guide
for the Discerning Shopper

first things first

Why is it so bewildering?

Why are there so many alternatives, choices, or "brand names" when it comes to finding a church home?  Roman Catholic, Lutheran Episcopalian, Reformed, Baptist, Methodist, Presbyterian, Congregationalist, Pentecostal, so-called "non-denominational," etc.  What gives?  Well, in the end of the day there are only a few major brands, but then among those brands there are splits over things as simple as carpet color or as big as Communion practice.

There is also the "fringe" churches which show up from seemingly nowhere.  The pop up almost weekly, and then disappear.  Then there's the TV churches like the "faith healers" and the fast-talking, feel-good preachers, and all those self-proclaimed prophets and apostles and bishops all claiming to have signs and wonders to share...for just a love offering of $30 or more.

It's very perplexing, isn't it?

Should it be this frustrating?

No, it should not.  Finding a church home should be as simple as going to the church closest to your family, joining, and celebrating Christ and His cross.  Unfortunately, the American church experience is anything but simple.

Of course, how you go about finding your church home, this matters too.  It's really not a reflection of true discernment if you just look for a church that makes you feel good, has friendly people, uplifting music, etc.  Christianity is more than feelings, after all, and starting your search with your emotions leads to trouble in most matters, including church.

But it's also not good to make it purely about reason.  If your discernment is strictly about growth patterns, types and number of ministries, a church's financial condition, the quality of the building, the number of staff, etc. then you are letting your own thinking get in the way.

Fact is that church bodies know that most people choose their churches by emotions or reason, and they literally market their churches accordingly.  This is a product of living in a very consumerist society where "have it your way" is the nation's motto.  Churches want people, so they offer a "have it your way" Christianity.  It makes sense...it's very wrong...but it make sense.

One caveat however.  Please understand that I am looking at all this from a confessional Lutheran point of view.  I am not ashamed to say this, however.  This is not a heart or head thing, a "feeling" or "intellectual" thing for me.  I believe (have faith) that what we teach as confessional Lutherans is true to the Scripture, and we do not add to or delete anything.  If you are willing to take doctrine seriously, then I am willing to discuss these things with you.  Granted, the Lutheran church is not perfect and there are many things of which we must repent, but our doctrine is not one of them.  And you can test us on this, and we encourage and challenge you to "discern" our doctrine to the fullest!

So, to help you, here are some discernful questions and some do's and don'ts.  If you are serious about finding a church home that is faithful to the Word of God and rightly teaches Christ, this is a great place to start.

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What do you think?

Do you see how churches are not all the same?  Even among the main doctrines (articles) of the Christian faith, some churches have went their own way and abandoned  orthodox  (faithful to the Scripture) teachings.  Yet, these churches are loved and attended by millions.  Scary to think!  But it takes us right back to discernment.  These are matters of eternal life and should be taken seriously.

Watch Rev. Bryan Wolfmueller's video on the Biblical precedence of Closed Communion and why all Christians and churches should practice it.

Communion Policy

St. Paul's Lutheran Church believes and teaches that the Lord gives us His true body and blood in the bread and wine served in the Lord's Supper for the forgiveness of sins and to strength our union with Him and one another.  Our Lord invites to His table those who trust His words: this is my body, this is my blood, given and shed for you for the forgiveness of your sins, who repent of all sin, and who set aside any refusal to forgive and love others as He forgives.

Because those who eat and drink in an unworthy manner do so to their great harm, and who are not yet instructed, in doubt, or who hold a belief differing from this congregation and The Lutheran Church—Missouri Synod, and yet desire to receive the Sacrament, are asked to speak with the pastor or an elder.

St. Paul's Lutheran Church is a Closed Communion church body.

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